I don’t know what Liberal/Progressive people are hoping to accomplish by continuing to argue overTrans-correct language. It just is not an issue for the American public. Poll it. I am sure it won’t even appear on any list of their concerns.

Even though it is a low priority issue, it keeps coming up as a problem. First with Bette Midler, then Senator Hawley, and now Fareed Zakaria. Zakaria was making the point that there are more important issues than personal pronouns and that the Democrats should focus on those instead of Trans-correct language. But, instead of taking Zakaria’s advice, Progressives heaped criticism on him. They accuse Zakaria of taking away trans rights. How? He is saying let’s not fight an election about the use of personal pronouns which seems, at least to me, an eminently sensible way for the Democrats to proceed. Zakaria, in no way, argued to take rights away from Trans people.

They also urged him to use more inclusive language. Everybody should change. They want Trans people to feel included in the larger discussions that they may include them. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. It’s the scolding of people who don’t know or don’t want to use Trans-correct language that is the problem. Midler and Zakaria are arguably more in line with Democratic Party thinking than the Republican Party. They are certainly more open to Trans people than Ron DeSantis and Ted Cruz. Yet they are lumped into the transphobic categorization with them. This is clearly wrong.

What is particularly alarming is these Progressives have absolutely no self awareness about how they are perceived among the American population who live outside of Berkeley. When Sen. Hawley and Dr. Bridges, the head of University California at Berkeley’s Law school, recently had a little dustup about Trans-correct language during a senate hearing on abortion, they think Dr. Bridges won. That isn’t what I thought. Sen. Hawley got her talking about Trans people which wasn’t even the issue under discussion and used up her time talking about something other than abortion rights. Then she said that by not using Trans inclusive phrases that Sen. Hawley was performing violence on transgender people.

She is saying that Sen. Hawley is being violent towards Trans people when he uses the word woman over Dr. Bridges’ preferred people with the capacity of pregnancy. What does she mean by violence? Her meaning of violence is different than my understanding of violence. When I think of violence, I think of a physical attack — a fist fight or a gun battle. Dr. Bridge means something different, something more subtle, and, unfortunately for her, something that the vast majority of American people won’t understand. She might as well be talking in a foreign language. As far as the term people with the capacity of pregnancy, she talks as if this term has been incorporated into every day use and that every civilized American is using it instead of woman.

I hate to break it to her, but very few regular Americans have made this change. Every time I hear something like people with the capacity of pregnancy, I have to stop and think who she is talking about. Then, I realize she is talking about women, or at least, mostly talking about women. Why not use women instead? But, no, Trans people might feel marginalized, we need to be inclusive. So in order to make sure Trans people feel included, she is oblivious to the feelings of large segments of the American population. While I am glad she is trying to make Trans people welcome, how about affording this same concern to seniors, latinos, suburban voters, blue collar workers and pro-choice Republicans. There are over 300 million Americans. There are two parties and each party has to persuade enough people to vote for them to lead the country. Trans people make up less than 1% of the country, while Senior voters make up 32 %. How does telling 70 year old woman that she should be using the word menstruator instead of woman at all helpful to winning elections?

What Zakaria is warning about is simple. If you make this election about using Trans-inclusive language then you are going to lose the election. The nation is at a critical crossroads, the Democrats need to win elections in order to turn the country around. To do anything else is criminal negligence. The Democrats still may lose, but it would be better to loose over something that engages the interest of the American People and not a side issue that a small minority care about. If they do make using the correct personal pronouns a focus of their campaign, they will surely lose. And, I am afraid, they will deserve to lose.